Tuesday, August 18, 2009

life is being happy

You said : Life is being happy, yes sometimes you breath, run, sleep, work but not happiness at all these are not the parts of life but sometimes even if you are sitting alone, even if chatting on computer or with whomever you are and you feel happiness that would be the life.

oh fuck, I love you! you have a great definition of life!
Life is being happy, It will be my new favorite quote, eshgh e man..^^

Okay, as you said life is being happy, but life is about responsibility too, I mean being an adult is full of responsibility. And responsibility is really does suck, really really suck. Life is exhausted sometimes. And well, life is complicated always. But that's life..because life..sucks.

And sometimes life is about denial. We deny we are tired, we deny that we are scared, we deny how badly we want to succeed, we deny that we are happy, or we deny that we are sad, and most importantly, we deny that we are in denial. We only see what we want to see and believe what we want to believe, and it works. We lie to ourselves so much that after a while the lies start to seem like the truth. We deny so much that we can't recognize the truth... right in front of our faces.

And life is about communication. Comunication is the first thing we really learn in life. The funny thing is, once we grow up, learn our words and really start talking, the harder it becomes to know what to say. Or how to ask for what we really need..

And life is about the lines. In general, lines are there for a reason. For security, for clarity. If we choose to cross the line, we pretty much do so at our own risk. So why is it that the bigger the line, the greater the temptation to cross it? We cant help ourselves. When we see a line we want to cross it. Maybe it’s the thrill of the unfamiliar, a sort of personal dare. The only problem is once that we’ve crossed, it’s almost impossible to go back. But, if we do manage to make it back across the line, we find safety in numbers. We can have anything in life if we sacrifice everything else for it. What I mean is nothing comes without a price. So before we go into battle, we better decide how much we're willing to lose. Too often, going after what feels good means letting go of what we know is right. Of course, the toughest sacrifices are the ones we don't see coming, when we don't have time to come up with a strategy to pick a side or to measure the potential loss. When that happens, when the battle chooses us and not the other way around, that's when the sacrifice can turn out to be more than we can bear..

And life is about guilt. You know guilt never travels alone. Guilt brings reinforcements, namely its close friends doubt and insecurity. And it packs a wallop. We are left with a choice. Either let the guilt throw we back into the behavior that got we into trouble in the first place, or learn from the guilt and do our best to move on.

And life is about wish. We don't wish for the easy stuff. We wish for big things. Things that are ambitious, out of reach. We wish because we need help and we are scared and we know we may be asking too much. We still wish, though, because sometimes they come true.
And life sometimes doesn’t go exactly like we want it to be..
And as you said LIFE IS BEING HAPPY..
this is it, life is being happy !