could have happened

Last night I saw Friends, American sitcoms, ‘the one that could have happened’ episode, my favorite one. That episode makes me think, how different my life would be if I didn’t do the same option, what have could happened if I choose different way, how my life would be if I had done other decision, if I ..if I…bla..bla..bla.. the lesson is that some things are just meant to be, whatever we choose, whatever we decide, it will make our life differ, it always has risk, take it, leave it, grant it, deny it, just decide it.

I am seriously addicted to Friends, one of the best sitcoms ever!
every episode always makes me laugh..
I like everyone in the movie, love the chat, love the jokes, love the whole movie...
Though laughing, we are invited to think.

plan

If we are organized person, we usually make or have fixed plans.
Plan, the things that we want them to happen, the things we want to see coming.
The things about plan is, they don’t take into account the unexpected.
We abhor failure. Of course.
But somehow we find joy in the things we don’t plan for, the things we never see coming.
The point is we always expect the best thing coming, we always expect success,we always want our plans going well, not messing up…

making mistakes

My friend asked me about the meaning of life…
I just realized that I don’t know either, I don’t know what the meaning of life exactly.
Life is LIFE, life is a complex phenomenon, life is eat and breath.
Whatever the definition about life, life is just life.

You've been unhappy and depressed a good bit, then you’re questioning the meaning of life.
You feel useless and worthless, then you want to know the meaning of life.
something awful just happened to you or someone you care about and you don't understand why bad things happen to good people, then you really need to know the meaning of life.

Life is just life
There are ups and downs, there are happiness, sadness, regret, and tears…
I don’t believe when people say they have no regrets in life. Everyone makes mistakes, and nothing’s wrong with that. Sometimes, things don’t go your way, but I believe we can make a better ending.

MISTAKES ARE HOW WE LEARN.
do you want to make a few more mistakes again??
I am thinking of that !

risk taken

Yesterday, he surprised me “I have very good news to tell you”
Then he told me about something,.
After that, smile came
he smiled, I smiled, we smiled.

I remembered one day he told me about making decision.
Every decision takes risks.
Every decision takes things that may impede us from achieving our objectives.
May be something bad happening, something not expect, risk of loss opportunity.
Threat.
Hazard.
Opportunity.
Uncertain outcomes.
All about uncertainly.

and when something bad happening, impede us from our goals, make us down, make us messed up, make us become somebody who make mistakes, it’s OK because mistakes are how we learn.

'There's always someone worse off than you are.' That's what some people say when they want to cheer us up. And he said to me too, he said to cheer me up. Oh yes. Very inspiring, I'm sure.
I repeat what he said 'There's always someone worse off than you are.' What?? We are supposed to feel better just because someone else is feeling worse??
I don’t think so!
Surely, we ought to be looking at the folk who are better off than we are, and then asking them what their secrets are….

Silent for a moment.
He was thinking.
“ you always remind me when I become absent-minded”, he said.
I replied, “what?? have you become absent-minded with age ?"
Risk taken !!
he laughed, I laughed, we laughed
laughed
not just smiled

fairy tales

we all remember the bed time stories of our childhoods. the shoes fits Cinderella, the frog turns into a prince, sleeping beauty is awakened with a kiss…
once upon a time, and then they lived happily ever after.
fairy tales, the stuff of dreams.
the problem is fairy tales don’t come true.
yeah…they don’t come true !!
the person who invited the phrase “happily ever after” should have his ass kicked so hard.

fairy tales, the stuff of dreams never come true.
reality is much stormier
reality is much murkier
reality is much scarier
again, the person who invited the phrase “happily ever after” should have his ass kicked so hard

our zone

Leaving our comfort zone make us get anxious, scared and other sort of feelings when we want to cross the border.
But I believe once we pass thru it..we’ll feel better and stronger than ever